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Wim Kamphorst

Conversation cards for men

Men often talk shoulder to shoulder, not face to face. Draw a card and pass it on. You choose how deep you go.

Draw a card to begin.

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Light

  • What is the best thing you experienced this week?
  • What job did you want to do as a boy?
  • What are you secretly proud of?
  • Which place in nature is your place?
  • What did you last make with your hands?
  • Which man from your childhood has stayed with you, and why?
  • What do you do when nobody asks anything of you?
  • Which adventure do you still want to have?
  • What makes you laugh out loud?
  • What is a good habit you picked up from someone else?

Deeper

  • What are you tired of, if you are honest?
  • When did you last feel really alone?
  • Which compliment from your father would you have liked to hear?
  • What are you afraid of when it comes to your children or family?
  • What would you do if you weren't afraid to fail?
  • Which role are you playing that doesn't really fit you?
  • When did you last cry, and why?
  • What have you been avoiding for a long time?
  • Who is allowed to challenge you when things are not going well?
  • Which promise have you not kept?

Faith

  • When did you last notice that God was close?
  • What do you find hard about following Jesus?
  • Which man in the Bible is most like you?
  • What would God say to you if you listened very honestly right now?
  • What do you not (yet) trust God with?
  • How do you pray when nobody is listening?
  • Which Bible verse has really helped you once?
  • What does it mean to you that God is Father?
  • Where do you see God at work in another man in this group?
  • What is one step of obedience you can take this week?